You’ve heard about the Law of Attraction. You focus on what you want and then it comes to you – right? But what’s going on when it doesn’t come, or it’s taking a really long time and you start to lose hope? Here you can learn secrets of the Law of Attraction for free to manifest the life you truly want.
In reality, the Law of Attraction or conscious creation is a combination of several ingredients.
- Really understanding how the power of attraction works.
- Being clear on where you want to get to.
- Giving yourself the fuel to get there.
- Knowing how not to get in your own way.
Here’s how you can learn to ‘master’ the energies of the universe that are available to us all. To use secrets of the Law of Attraction to really create the life you want. To learn to drive the car of your life on a road you would prefer to be on, rather than end up off in a ditch somewhere without any understanding of how you got there.
Step 1: Understanding how the Law of Attraction works
“You are a living magnet. What you attract into your life is in harmony with your dominant thoughts” – Brian Tracy
The fact is, the Law of Attraction has been working for you every moment of your life so far. It’s impossible to switch it off. But you may have attracted what you don’t want by not fully understanding how it works. Whatever you focus on predominantly is what you get more of, good or bad. There might be 9 things in your life that are going great and one thing that isn’t going as you would want. So which do you tend to focus on? The one you don’t want.
So that focused thought on something you’re not happy about becomes your dominant energy. Therefore you start to attract more of what you don’t want. If you don’t realise, and don’t change your thinking and your focus quickly back to good things, gradually the 9 things in your life that were going well before, will also start to match what you don’t want.
But the good news is it also works in reverse. You may have 9 things in your life that you don’t want, and one thing you are happy about. And if you focus your thoughts and attention often on how much you really appreciate that one thing and how happy it makes you, you start to attract more positives in your life. The 9 things that weren’t going well will start to get better and better.
Notice what you’re focusing on and talking about
If you keep talking about the drama you don’t want in your life, you will continue to attract more drama in your life. So bang the drum of what you do want in life, rather than shouting about what you don’t like.
When you’re in fear of something, you’re giving a lot of negative energy and momentum to the thing you don’t want.
In every moment you have a rendezvous with the next reality of your choosing – chosen by your dominant thought-forms that are like a magnet in your vibration. Whatever most matches your magnet in every moment is what sticks and becomes your next experience.
Creating your road ahead
What you are thinking about and focusing on is constantly creating your next bit of ‘road’ ahead. It’s like the molten tar that is forming the road in front of you that will be your next experiences in life. You need to focus mostly on positives, think mainly happy thoughts and really appreciate what you already have. Then you have the ingredients to form a road you’ll be happy to drive on with mostly positive experiences.
However, if you’re anxious, fearful and worried and spend most of the time focusing on things you hope won’t come into your life, you will draw exactly those components you don’t want to form your road. Then your road ahead solidifies and forms as a bumpy, uneven, mostly unhappy road you don’t want to be on.
Step 2: Get clear on what you want
“If you don’t know where you are going, you might wind up someplace else.” ~ Yogi Berra
First you need to put your wanted destination into the ‘attraction satnav’. You need to decide where you want to go next and what you want to experience. Then input it clearly. So write it down to get clear on it. But write it in the present tense as if you already have it. If you put it in the future tense, it will stay in the future.
However, DON’T SAY DON’T. People often have a clearer idea of what they don’t want, rather than what they DO want to experience. “I don’t want any more financial problems.” “I don’t want to feel anxious.” “I don’t want to feel sad about what I don’t have.” But the attraction satnav can’t process the word don’t. So it hears: “I want more financial problems.” “I want to feel anxious.” “I want to feel sad.” So that’s what you get more of.
Therefore it’s important to use positive language as well as the present tense. “I am financially abundant.” “I feel calm and relaxed.” “I feel happy and content about what I have.” Remembering this is one of the key factors of the secrets of the Law of Attraction.
Strengthen your attraction magnet
Then you need to practise often thinking about having these things and feeling the enjoyment of having them already to give more momentum to the wanting. To make it a strong thought-form that part of your energy vibration. Then you become a magnet to attract the things you want that match your energy.
The great thing is, when you do this and also follow the steps below, at the same time you draw into your life like a magnet things you didn’t even know you wanted that make you happy.
Step 3: Give yourself the fuel to get there
“The more joyful you are, the more well-being flows to you” – Esther Hicks
The fuel to manifest what you want in your life, to get the place you want, is your Emotional Set Point (ESP). This means where your emotions and energy are at in any given moment. It depends whether you’re thinking about negative things or positive things. The things you like in your life or the things you don’t like. Whether you’re feeling happy and exhilarated, tired and disinterested, or angry and frustrated, and every step in between those extremes of emotions.
So you need to put sufficient petrol in your tank to get to the destination you want in the form of happy thoughts and feeling good about things. The ESP is both the amount and quality of fuel in your tank. Learn more about How to improve your Emotional Set Point.
Secrets of the Law of Attraction to refuel your attraction ‘car’
Here are some secrets of the Law of Attraction to improve the amount and quality of the ‘fuel’ energy in your attraction tank.
Pivot your thinking
Whenever you notice you’re focusing on negatives, change your focus quickly onto thinking about things you like instead. Remember something that makes you laugh, or think of a happy memory. Or do something in that moment that makes you feel good. My favourite is to dance in the kitchen with the dog. Or to look at my list of funnies on my phone that always make me laugh. Being able to pivot quickly back to positives whenever you have bad experiences in life gives a great deal of positive momentum/fuel to your attracting.
Do things you enjoy often
Do more of what makes you come alive. Prioritise time to do hobbies that make you feel good. It might be listening to music, singing, dancing, running, knitting. Or talking to someone you love on the phone. Anything that makes YOU feel good. Choose for reasons of joy, not obligation.
Appreciate what you have
One of the most important secrets of the Law of Attraction is to appreciate all the good things you have in your life already, even the small things like a really comfy pair of slippers. Notice and value good things around you, the smell of a flower, the sun coming out from behind a cloud or the feeling of the rain. Relish and relive happy memories. It could be the memory of a lovely meal and really savour that piece of chocolate cake as if you’re tasting it in your mouth again.
Meditate to help you let go of stresses in life as they occur. To clear your mind and expand the connection to your Inner Being, your non-physical life force energy. This alone adds lots of fuel to your attraction car, because the more you do it, the more you grow your connection to your Inner Being. Then you are able to flow more of that universal energy coming directly via your Inner Self. That gives you top grade attraction fuel.
Do regular to release stress hormones such as adrenalin and cortisol from your body. You will produce instead feel good hormones that will boost your mood and raise your ESP.
Take action in the direction of your dreams
Do one thing every day that brings you closer to the person you want to become, to the life you want to lead. This both helps you keep focused on your wanted destination and adds fuel to attract it.
4. Knowing how not to get in your own way – important secrets of the Law of Attraction
“Nothing binds you, but your own thoughts. Nothing limits you, but your own fears. Nothing controls you, but your own beliefs.” – Marianne Williamson
It’s important to pay attention to your thoughts and feelings and notice when your dominant thoughts have gone off course. Here are some of the ways you may be getting in the way of your conscious creation.
Wavering and doubting
“You create your own universe as you go along.” – Winston Churchill
It’s the combination of both your emotional set point and your wanting that determines what you attract next. Both have to meet up to make something happen. Sometimes the petrol is good but the destination wavers. You may start to doubt you ‘deserve’ to have it, or doubt you’ll be able to attract it. So then your petrol is wasted by tripping off route. Then you may feel deflated because things aren’t happening. So the ESP dips. Therefore, even you firm up destination again and stop wavering, you’ll only arrive at the destination when the ESP has got positive again – ie sufficient petrol now in the tank.
“Worrying is like paying a debt you don’t owe.” ― Mark Twain
It’s important to remember that attraction is happening every moment. So you might spend 15 minutes having a lovely daydream about already having the good things you want in life. But then you allow yourself to drift back to negative thoughts – financial worries, worrying about what others think of you, or wider concerns about what’s going on in the world. So then you might attract a mixed bag of next experiences. Everybody has negative thoughts come up. It’s part of life. The key thing is not to dwell on them, but get back to thinking as soon as possible about the things you love.
Whatever you’re thinking about is literally like planning a future event. When you’re worrying, you are planning and attracting things you don’t want. When you’re appreciating and joyful you are planning and attracting more good things. Learn more about how to free yourself from negative thinking.
“The universe is not punishing you or blessing you. The universe is responding to the vibrational attitude that you are emitting.” – Esther Hicks
Good things might start to come to you, but you might step into doubting you deserve them. You might start to wonder if it’s fair for you to have good things when so many people in the world are suffering. So you just push them away again.
There is no limit to the number and extent of positive experiences that are available to all of humanity. The universal energy is limitless, for good experiences and bad. The only determining factor is what a person’s current vibration and ESP are a match to. Unfortunately, many people who have been undergoing difficulty, keep thinking about and focusing on the past unpleasant experiences they didn’t want and so project that onto the next experience they attract.
Going back to the road analogy, these people are constantly looking through the rearview mirror at the bad things that just happened that they didn’t want. So the outcome is that they then project those unwanted experiences onto the road ahead.
Lack of self-love
“Everything you experience mirrors a part of you. Change your thoughts and you change your world.” – Wayne Dyer
This is a very important factor in being able to attract good things in your life. When you don’t love yourself and value yourself it’s very hard for you to feel worthy of attracting good things in your life. So that in itself can be a big block to consciously creating the life you want.
You may be aware of emotional baggage you’re carrying from the past that is making you feel unworthy of attracting what you want in life. There may be some limiting beliefs and fears that are constantly pulling your ESP down and flattening your mood. So these underlying feelings of limitation can fritter away the attraction fuel you’ve accumulated by focusing on positives. Learn more about the Importance of Self-Love.
Desperation to have what you want
Many people are completely unaware of this secret of the Law of Attraction
Whenever you feel really desperate to have what you are wanting, you’re actually projecting negative energy around the very thing you want. If you feel you can’t be really happy without having something, you’re creating equal negative energy which is pushing it away as fast as any positive feelings are trying to attract it.
A good example of this is a woman who becomes desperate to have a baby. The more she feels bad about not having it yet, when she sees others with babies and toddlers, the more she is holding the reality of having a baby away from herself. In many cases, it’s only when she lets go of the desperate wanting and changes her focus and attention towards other things that make her happy, that she then falls pregnant.
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